USE OF POWER
Authority Zone – meeting expectations
Authority Zone – meeting expectations
Leadership Zone – working on competing values
Power Zone – abuse of position
What congregation teaches you “you don’t really
understand what our congregation …makes music leader choose more comfortable music…
How music is fitting into the our worship right now
Stepping out and boldly more in …
If you don’t abuse power – leadership is always
about…
People’s
expectation on leadership – directing, protecting, ordering (technical
problem solving)
Leader should be able to expose threats
Adaptive leadership and technical -> don’t always
mix
Difficulty providing adaptive leadership
Adaptive
work often ….outside of authority structures
Work Avoidance
Work
avoidance is what we do in place of adaptive work
Diverting attention / displacing responsibility
Blaming/scapegoating
– technical solving only – telling a joke, take a break, deny the problem,
create a proxy fight, take options off the table to honour legacy behaviour
Displacing
Responsibility
Shooting the messenger, scapegoating someone,
externalize the enemy, attacking authority, delegate the work to someone who
can’t do anything about it (consultant committee, task force)
The leader’s task is getting the work back to the people who
have to do the adaptation
It is not managing change: It is about regulating the pace of
loss.
Frustrating expectations at a rate that people can stand.
10-12 % people will never change because their core value is being threatened.
Always
asking: who stands to lose what? (what’s being left behind)
CONTAINERS
Dialolgue
inside the governing body
(experiment:
(lava) and see how the congregation respond to it) ex. At the end of the
summer
Finding the PRODUCTIVE ZONE OF DISEQUILIBIRUM
(3
pictures of the pots of boiling egg in the water)
Until the heat warms up to a certain level
The second picture: system shutdown
9. Holding Steady.
THE DANCE FLOOR –
OBSERVE, INTERPTRETE, INTERVENE
What’s happening in the balcony – create a space for observing balcony
What’s happening in the balcony – create a space for observing balcony
YOU KNOW WHEN ALL ADAPTIVE CHALLENGE WHEN p.10
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There is persistent gap between
aspiration and reality
-
Available responses are inadequate
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Difficult learning is required
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New stakeholders need to be included
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Long true frame needs to be changed
IDENTIFYING FLAGS OF ADAPTIVE CHALLENGE
the language of complaint is overused..
the language of complaint is overused..
Failure, frustration, stress
p. 11.
LEARNING AN ADAPTIVE
INTERVENTION
Involves testing hypothesis – ex “we don’t have
children in our worship, it means..”
Example of adaptive intervention: adaptive
challenge: A congregation in pastoral transition: what does it mean to prepare
our congregation for new leadership after a highly successful and visible
pastorate of 18 years.
The intervention; people become to ask all the
sacred cows. Anxiety level is heightened.
Conversation, container
Leaders want to reduce board size from 21 members to
9 members to improve board decision making effectiveness.
YOUR DECISION TO BE NON-REACTIVE can be
ADAPTIVE INTERVENTION
최대한
예배를
구성하는
힘(power)가 더 많은
사람들에게
주어지도록
한다
FRACTION IS NOT SIGN OF FAILRUE; IT IS A SIGN OF MOVEMENT
We treat that as DATA
We treat that as DATA
Stakeholders
begin to use our perspectives
Be
careful not to carry somebody else’s water
DIFUSSION OF INNOTVATION (Everett Rodgers)
Innovators
2.5 % likes changes for the sake for changes
Early
Adaptors 13.5 % if when some makes sense to them
Early
Majority: 34 %
Late Majority: 34 % head back for a while – skeptical people
Late Majority: 34 % head back for a while – skeptical people
Laggards
16 % Laggards are never coming along, never going to
endorse to change, no explanation would get them to move along
Target for change – not for the sake of laggards,
but for late
majority
Usually we spend most of our energy mostly to the three groups – innovators,
early adaptors, laggards, but the place for you to put your leadership and
energy are Early Majority and Late Majority.
Say to the Laggards: “I am so sorry that it’s so painful for you, but we are going this
way.”
ACTING POLITICALLY (Matthew
10:16)
In
ways of getting things done in MISSIONAL AND
COVENANTAL WAY
Through
the strategic use of power
Am
I deepening my influence reservoir or draining it?
Ø Our
ambivalence about power
Ø Concerns
about means and end
Ø Preference
for individual over collective
performance
Ø Preference
for decision making over implementation
Fair Fighter (FF) Dirty Fighter (DF) Balanced
Fighter (BF)
Q. What is an appropriate response to those who try
to sabotage you?
Be aware: the use of negative currency will always
escalate the power dynamics.
Engage the HEALTHY BYSTANDERS, POWER OF THE COMMUNITY
EXAMINE YOUR IMMUNITY TO CHANGE
(Now away from the congregation system to YOUR LEADERSHIP SYSTEM
(Now away from the congregation system to YOUR LEADERSHIP SYSTEM
ADAPTIVE
INTERVENTION FOR MYSELF
Book: Immunity to Change
COLUMN 1 : POSSIBILITIES
What things (if I could do them more frequently or
better) would help me to be a more adaptive
leader in my context (for example, not worry about pleasing everyone, ignoring
things that I don’t really need to pay attention to…)?
Ø My
personal answer:
I need to develop leadership skill that is political
in a healthy and appropriate way and influential enough to bring adaptive
changes that church does need to go through as an outcome of the adaptive
leadership.
1. Developing healthy,
political leadership skills that would practically bring as an outcome healthy
changes that the community need to experience. (developing healthy skills of
using coalition tactics as one of my influence tactics)
2. Self-confidence and
endurance to not stop promoting an adaptive change in the face of others’
resistance and exercising an inappropriate attempt.
3. Being firm and
standing on my ground when I articulate on the adaptive challenges, without
falling into becoming emotional. Not becoming a victim.
COLUMN 2 : LOYALTIES AND
VALUES
What loyalties or values underlie your column 1
responses for each response in column 1, complete this sentence. “This response
suggests that I am loyal to”
Ø I
am loyal to health of community,
being ‘missional’ as a core value of
my identity as a Christian and the church’s.
Ø I
am loyal to the commitment and desire to develop need skills and exercise
leadership that is politically healthy and practically influential (political influence).
Ø Independence, influence,
confidence, endurance, health of the community, being missional, practicality,
standing on my ground.
COLUMNE 3: DOING/NOT DOING
Look at what you recorded in column 2 and answer
this question: “What am I doing or not doing that is keeping me from more fully
honouring these ‘commitments’”?
Ø I
have been too conscious of and sensitive to whether the time is favourable or not to speak the truth and do the
needed action that would actually make any influence on the dynamics of the
congregation.
Ø I
have hesitated to do anything that may
make fraction among others.
Ø I
stop doing any effort to make changes
when I face strong resistance from a group of people. I don’t usually confront others.
Ø I
have never used coalition tactics as
a possible influence tactics that I may benefit from using it. (making allies..with healthy bystanders).
Ø I
have never considered to be political.
(being political is opposed to being faithful.)
COLUMN 4: HIDDEN COMPLETING
COMMITMENTS
WORRY
BOX: If I imagine myself doing the opposite of what I
recorded in column 3, what is the most uncomfortable, worrisome or outright
scary feeling that comes up for me?
Ø Creating
conflict, fraction, a certain
dynamic that I may contribute to and then I will have no control over.
Ø After
all, if I don’t accept the wishes of those who would never comply to me, they would eventually leave the church for their own deeply saturated frustration and resentment.
Ø I
am worried that the others begin to
convince their friends to believe that I am not competent, and that I lack important capacities, skills, faith
and knowledge that they believe are the cores of leadership (including
worship leadership). (Put it differently, proving
my competence and excellency so that I prove I am valuable is so important
to me.)
Ø If
I act politically, I may lose fairness
and inclusivity. Being political means losing fairness.
THE
WORRY BENEATH THE WORRY
Ø I
am valuable only when I prove that I am competent and excellent.
Ø People may leave
if I don’t comply to their wishes, and that means I fail in ministry. I will be considered
as an incompetent, bad minister.
For each behaviour you listed in column 3, identify
the commitment driving that behaviour by completing this sentence: “I may also
be loyal to…”
Ø The
values of fairness, inclusivity, others’ feelings and desire to feel happy
and good, caring and being faithful to everyone, especially those who are not
well,
Ø proving
my competence, excellence, people’s evaluation
Ø Staying away from what stresses me,
inner peace.
Ø Harmony. Liking each other.
Ø You
cannot possibly satisfy those two different sets of commitments. I cannot live
in the both worlds at the same time.
Ø Column
2 protects Column 3 from worries, so we get stuck
COLUMN 5: BIG ASSUMPTIONS
A mindset or way of constructing reality that
inevitably contains a blind spot: something we don’t initially recognize as an
assumption but as the truth.
Ø I
have not believed that my proving of my capacity and competence can be measured
by how I have made healthy fraction and whether people begin to adopt the
vocabularies from my vision, - the signs of the adaptive changes – rather than
by the numbers of the church attendance or seeing who have come and who may
never come back to Sunday service.
Ø That
if I don’t comply, people would leave is an assumption that I have never
tested.
Ø I
have assumed that coalition tactic is always not healthy and leads to lose fairness.
COLUMN 6: FIRST SMART TEST
What are one or two concrete and tangible action
step that you could take to test your most problematic assumptions? Safe enough
to test the assumption that I hold as truth
Ø Acting
politically; whenever and whatever Helen
and others use inappropriate attempts, I say no. And assure them that we
can have a conversation in a container
setting that is appropriate, healthy, public, official and visible.
Ø Engage
with the healthy bystanders like Gloria, David, Lana and others and ask or
receive their spontaneous support. Use
Coalition tactics, make allies, work
with bystanders. Share.
Ø Don’t use ‘legitimate tactic’
to Helen, Marian and others as it seems that it does not work at all.
Ø Speak the truth and act politically
with appropriate, healthy means.
Ø Try
and to be in a way that deepens my
influence reservoir. Always be reminded.
Ø Try
to be disengaged as much as I can from Helen. (Don’t put too much energy to persuade and work with Helen.) Try to be more engaged with the group of Early
Adopters and Late Adopters and share my vision with them.
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